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Sunday, January 11,
2004
Santa Fe Woman is 'toy Lady' to Tibetan Orphans
Consultant has spent two months in India helping Tibetan orphans
By
ANNE CONSTABLE | The New Mexican
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Young monks pose for a photograph at the Menri Monastery in northern
India. - Photo courtesy of Annette Adams |
Annette
Adams, a fine-art consultant who has lived in Santa Fe for 30 years and who
has practiced Zen Buddhism for nearly as long, is in her second month at the
Menri Monastery in northern India where she is helping to care for Tibetan
orphans.
The monastery is dedicated to the preservation of the Bön religion, Tibet's
oldest spiritual tradition. At the monastery, some 200 monks undergo nine
years of religious training that includes philosophy, logic poetics,
astrology, the languages of Zhang-Zhung and Sanskrit, medicine, ritual and
meditation.
The monastery also supports two orphanages.
"Not unlike the tribes of New Mexico, their culture is rich in ancient
tradition," Adams wrote in an e-mail from Dolanji, India.
A few years ago Adams met Tempa Dukte Lama, who studied at the Menri
Monastery and now leads retreats with Joan Halifax at Santa Fe's Upaya Zen
Center. He asked Chongtul Rinpoche, founder and president of the Bön Student
Welfare Trust and a teacher at the Bön Dialectic School, if Adams could go
to the orphanage to study and work.
On Dec. 26, Adams said, 21 children, ages 5 to 10, arrived at the monastery
from Tibet and Nepal after a six-week journey. While they were waiting to
meet His Holiness, Lungtok Tempa'i Nyima, the worldwide spiritual leader of
the Bön religion, Adams said, "I handed out gum and cricket cards. They were
so appreciative. They formed a line and were taught how not to toss the
wrappers on the ground as they had done with their eggshells in the
morning."
Adams said one of the new children told her about waiting six weeks to cross
the border. "His command of the English language is extraordinary. He spoke
of how relieved he was to be here and excited to see his new school."
She is teaching the woman who escorted the children how to write her name
and read. And, she said, she bought a book bag for a 12-year-old who will
start school in a month.
They receive an excellent education, she said, in Tibetan language and
history, English, art, math and astrology and spend their free time playing
marbles and cricket.
The children are very polite, she said. "When they received their four
marbles (my favorite gift to give), they bow and thank me," Adams said.
"I am known as the 'toy lady' because I buy the cricket bats and balls and
marbles and hats. But, in reality, the gifts come from (Santa Fe friends)
Anne Parker (who taught Adams about the Bön religion) and Joe Schepps (a
local developer)."
Her day begins early with mediation at her shrine and reading about the Bön
religion, Adams said. After tea, she goes to see what needs to be done.
In an e-mail in late December, Adams wrote, "Today I brought water-filtering
sets I bought for the dispensary and met three monks who had been hit by a
truck while coming from Nepal on a bus. They had broken bones and were not
feeling well."
While looking for someone to give the water filters to she walked into the
monastery's medicine room where, she said, "there were thousands of pieces
of incense and jars of herbs and Tibetan medicines."
During the last week of December, Adams wrote, the monks go to the monastery
temple for daylong chanting, which culminates Dec. 30 with the lighting of
1,000 candles.
But the highlight of her visit was on Christmas. She and Sandia Douglas,
another volunteer, were cooking a vegetarian dinner when "His Holiness
walked in and sat in this small kitchen and talked with the two of us for an
hour. He told us stories and chatted. This man is equal to the Dalai Lama,
and there I was in his presence. It was lovely."
Adams plans to spend two months at the monastery and return to Santa Fe --
via Kyoto, Japan -- to curate an art show of Tom O'Connell's calla lily
photographs to benefit the monastery's children.
"They really need a complete set of clothing for play," Adams said.
Unfortunately, mailing packages is risky.
"I mailed myself two boxes," she said, but they arrived without the clothing
they originally contained.
"They left me no clothing, just my books," she said. "Little did they know
that I prefer the books, but it was the children who needed the clothing.
Poverty mentality is everywhere."
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